Stay in your own lane!!

While driving to Richmond, I was toodling along at my own speed of 70 (no officer, I was not speeding, while lifting up my boobs and tugging down my shirt) and I was in a three lane highway, just thinking about life, which is why I like to drive.

While in the Far left lane It dawned on me...Life and sex are about the three lanes of life..

Slow Lanes: The slow side of things, The ones who like to be cautious and stay in the safe lane and take it safe, never venturing out and over exposing themselves the the edge of the cliffs, never wanting to try something new and exciting, they are comfortable where they are and happy to stay there watching things WIZZ by them at lightning speeds. They reach the goal, happy, content at turtle speed, unaware of the frustrations they may cause others, but they reach their destination.

Middle Lanes: The ones who THINK they can dabble in and out of the fast lanes, when indeed all they do is cause unlikeyly confusion to those who are speeding along and need to move around to avoid the Fast lane wanna-be's.  They are a little daring and can stick their toes in the water, but not at all daring enough to hang with the Big Boys in the thick of it all. The ones who frustrate the Fast lanes, make the slow lanes look bad and weak. they could go either way in life,, Good or bad, they can take all situations the same. The Blenders! They blend to surroundings.

Far Lanes: the speeding lane, the Determined individuals who GET IT, who are hell bend on reaching a destination and know just how to get there without all the drama, fluff and unnecessary BS.  the ones who are type A personalities, the determined, take what they want, give back the minimal to reach their goals. BUT they do reach them all the same, faster and more stressed, but they reach them. Most Fast Lane people are unaware of their surroundings and others who are affected by them. They are most generous to those who enter their worlds, and guard their lifestyles with passion and respect, but dont often let the slow lanes in because of unneeded frustration.

Now how does this equate to sex you ask?

Slow Lanes: The ones who take their time making love, are not concerned with their needs, but are more focused on their partners sexual desires,, slow and steady, Poking along happy as a lark.

Middle Lanes: They dart in and out of safe Zones.  They can reach and expect to reach an orgasm, but it is not the end of the world if they do not.  They can try daring things or NOT.. they really do not care one way or another.

Fast Lanes: You better have an orgasm, or forget it!  they demand it, they require it daily a few times and want to experience Everything Twice! this doesn't mean they are oblivious to their partners needs,, but they are taking theirs..Like it KINKY and an Experience.

As most can imagine where I am on this scale, I would ask you to tell me, where you are? Where do you drive your life Car, so to speak?

Can you be dared into driving in the fast lane? or are you a safe and secure person who does not dare to venture out into the world outside of your own?

There is a HUGE world out there with unknown expectations with realistic and unrealistic information, it is yours for the choosing, you can dabble, not do or live at full speed, but please,, for the sake of this Redhead,, LIVE,, please Live!

All this was thought of while driving in the Beautiful state of Virginia,, it is for lovers..They will have to Prove it.. wink!!