Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Pushing the Boundries

We A type personalities are often pushing people out of their comfort zone.  Just remember on thing..

If you are insisting that a person do something out of their comfort zone and they politely declining, perhaps your way is not for them, if you continue to insist, what you are essentially doing is RAPING their soul and taking away their comfort and identity.

What you say? How can my insisting I know what is good for another person be like RAPE?

I will put it to you from a woman's perspective.

If you are asking me nicely to do something, most likely, I will. But if you are pushing your wants on me after I tell you NO, then you are essentially taking my right to choose what I wish away from me.

Even though you WANT IT, it doesn’t make it right for me.

Perimeters in this business are important, safe words and boundaries are what makes us all special and unique in our own way.

This sets out price points.  What we will do for you will determine what and who you would like to see. If we all did the same thing, acted the same way then there would be no variety. Then you might as well stay home with the wife.. Right?

You choose to come to see a variety of women and therefore when we tell you our rules, you must comply or move on.

Forcing your beliefs or desires on us only makes for a dry and un-life-like sessions. Most likely we will Blacklist you, Hate you, Complain about you, and Give you a bad reference.  And Why? Because you took our right to choose away from us.

Remember that when you ask us what we like, we will tell you, we will show you,, if you are not happy with that.. don’t give us low scores, bitch about it.. Just accept it and move on. We do!

If you love us and we are a match..You have pleased us.. And we love you!




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